Love Tip #7
Intimacy is important to men and women! We just interpret intimacy differently. Go back and read Song of Solomon 2:1-14 to see how this couple grew in intimacy.
Men: Today, get to know your lady in a deeper way. Remember that knowing what type of deodorant she wears doesn’t make you intimate, it just makes you familiar. Ask her these questions to build intimacy…
- If we could go on vacation anywhere in the world, money being no object, where would you pick?
- What is a funny story about you that I don’t know?
- What do you feel like is going well in out lives right now? What is an area we can work on?
- Where would you like to see our family five or ten years from now financially, relationally, and spiritually?
Women: Men want a partner with whom they can experience life. We want intimacy through shared adventure. We need a comrad on our team who’s ready to take on life, quench any enemy together, and live life to the fullest.
Today plan an adventure to share with your man. It doesnt have to be something costly. Make it something out of the ordinary that you can look forward to. It doesn’t have to happen today, just plan something today and tell him you did so. You can share the plans with him or keep the a surprise, but let him know you want to spend some time doing something together.
